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Adoption: what is it and what it means
By Shaila Shah and foreword by Roger Morgan.
What is adoption? How is adoption different from
fostering? How is adoption decided on? How will the right family be
found? What happens on court? This new booklet for children and young
people covers these, and other crucial questions on the adoption
process and procedure.
Presented in accessible and jargon-free language, this
booklet addresses all the issues required by the National Minimum
Standards for Adoption and the accompanying Local Authority Adoption
Service Regulations 2003. This requires that each local authority (not
applicable in Scotland) must produce a written guide to the adoption
service which will include - amongst the topics mentioned above -
particular information about having access to the services of an
independent advocate and on making a complaint.
This colourful and fully illustrated booklet will
appeal to children and hold their attention. Information about
adoption is clearly set out and the text is enlivened by the inclusion
of short teaser questions about adoption, quizzes about famous adopted
people and easy-to-understand definitions about new words and terms
that a child may come across but not understand. Pages have been left
blank at the end of the booklet so that agencies can add their own
local information.
To learn more, visit the BAAF website by
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Staying Connected: Managing Contact In Adoption
Adopted children need to
maintain some degree of contact with their birth families in order to
help them make lasting new connections. But making and managing
contact arrangements with birth parents, wider birth family members
and other people who are significant to the child is a hugely complex
and challenging task.
How is this best achieved? Who
should have contact? How often, when and where? Should contact
arrangements be face-to-face or indirect? Supervised, supported or
independent? What does it feel like for all those involved?
Arrangements must be driven by the childs needs, wishes and feelings -
what happens when these inevitably change?
All the contributors to this
anthology are involved in making, sustaining or evaluating contact
arrangements, either as social workers, academics or adoptive parents.
They offer examples of varied practice to explore what works and what
does not and why. They describe many ways of remaining in touch but
they all emphasise the same essential aspects of managing
arrangements: flexibility and the opportunity to review arrangements
as time goes on and circumstances change.
They all stress the importance
of keeping the interests of the child in the forefront at all times.
At the heart of the book, adopted children and young people and their
families give their own opinions and share their own experiences,
illuminating all that can be said about managing contact arrangements.
No practitioner making contact plans for children can afford to be
without this book!
For more details or to
purchase from BAAF, visit,
Click here |
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Nutmeg Gets Cross
This book continues the story of Nutmeg, the small red
squirrel who with his younger sister and brother, featured in the
popular and well-received Nutmeg Gets Adopted (published by BAAF last
year). Suitable for post-adoption work with children, this new story
offers a practical way to identify, explore and understand painful
feelings that are likely to surface following adoption - often
triggered by seemingly happy events such as birthdays or contact with
birth siblings, but also due to problems at school such as bullying
and being behind their peers.
Happily adopted children may at times experience
'butterflies in their tummies', 'muddled heads' making it difficult to
think clearly, or angry reactions to siblings and friends and
destructive impulses - but will be quite unable to explain their
behaviour or strong feelings. This story will help parents and
professionals working with children in this situation to understand
what may be causing them to feel cross, confused and sad and to help
them to heal by identifying and exploring possible reasons for their
feelings. The benefits of tears, touching gently while talking with
your child, and hugging with the whole family are also explained.
The colourful illustrations feature the delightful
characters of the previous story and while the book can be used simply
as a story, it can also be used as a workbook and as a tool for
therapy. Again, the text is accompanied by practice guidelines which
explain the significance of each stage of the story and thoughts and
feelings which may be explored.
For more details or to
purchase from BAAF,
Click here |
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Adopters on Adoption
This looks at adoption from the point of view of
adoptive families. Here, for the first time their experiences,
feelings and observations are brought together in one book which
follows the adoption process - from the families' initial thoughts
about adoption through to supporting their adopted child into
adulthood.
A very good and
worthwhile read.
For more details or to
purchase from Amazon.co.uk,
Click here
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Adopting a Child: A Guide for People Interested in Adoption
This is the book for anyone who has ever thought about
adopting a child and wondered what it would involve. BAAF's
best-selling guide describes what adoption means and how to go about
it. This edition has been thoroughly revised following the new
Adoption Standards for England and contains a new section on
step-parent adoption.
Fully updated new edition of BAAF's best-selling short
guide to adoption which answers many initial questions, tells you how
to go about it and who to approach; This 'beginners guide' is the book
for anyone who has ever thought of adopting a child, helping to
explain the complicated process involved when finding new families for
looked after children and providing information for people interested
in adopting from overseas. Using a question and answer format, it
describes in plain English why children need adoption, the kinds of
children who are looking for new families, the reasons why people
adopt and what sort of people adoption agencies are looking for and
why. This edition includes a new section on step parent adoption. It
then tells you how to go about it - including the legal aspects and
the costs of adopting from both the UK and overseas. The guide also
looks at what happens after adoption and the differences between
adoption and fostering. It includes a comprehensive list of regional
agencies throughout the UK (England, Wales, Scotland and Northern
Ireland) and how to apply to them, plus other useful addresses and
suggestions for further reading.
For more details or to
purchase from Amazon.co.uk,
Click here |
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Considering
Adoption?
A
guide to all aspects of adoption, including motivating factors - is
adoption really "second best" for some couples, how the
system works, including coping with frustration, delays and
rejection, adopting from overseas and cultural issues. The book
examines the current requirements about contact with natural
parents, and the pressures they can bring for both adoptive and
natural parents. There is a balanced mixture of the factual and the
personal, making this a useful guide for anyone affected by
adoption.
For
more details or to purchase from Amazon.co.uk,
Click
here
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Nutmeg
Gets Adopted
This
book tells the story of Nutmeg, a little squirrel, and his younger
sister and brother who go to live with a new family after their
birth mother realises that she cannot keep them safe. It will also
help children waiting for an adoptive family, or recently placed in
one, to make sense of their experiences and to realise that what
went wrong in their birth family was not their fault. Beautifully
illustrated in full colour, the book is intended to be read to or
with children by their own social worker, their current carers or
their adoptive parents. A great read.
For
more details or to purchase from BAAF,
Click
here
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Waiting
for the right home
When
his parents split up, Daniel goes to live with his Mum and her new
partner. When it doesn’t work out, Daniel moves to live with
foster carers. Will Daniel stay there? Or will he go home? Simply
told and suitable for use with children aged around four to eight.
This
is the latest title in BAAF’s children’s book series, each
designed for use with children who are separated from their birth
families and need to make sense of their experiences and individual
history
For
more details or to purchase from Amazon.co.uk, Click
here
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The
Adoption Experience
A
collection of real-life stories of adopters which takes the reader
through every stage of the adoption process starting with the moment
when they decide that adoption is the right option for them to the
stories of adoptees brought up by adoptive parents. Its aim is to
inform and enlighten professionals, adopters, potential adopters and
all those whose lives have in some way been touched by adoption or
want to know more about it.
For
more details or to purchase from Amazon.co.uk, Click
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Primal
Wound
This
book made me think about issues my friends may have had to come to
grips with - no matter how wonderful their adopted families may have
been.
In
a country like ours where the aftermath of adoption is still so much
a 'taboo' subject, Nancy's book gives answers we don't always want
to hear but which nevertheless help us to understand this complex
and extremely emotional subject. I think it is a 'must' read for
anyone involved in adoption.
For
more details or to purchase from Amazon.co.uk, Click
here |
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